success

Are Your #Goals Really #Envy?

If I'm being all the way real, I used to HATE these posts. But I didn't want to be seen as a hater -- so I would say #goals and carry on with my scrolling. They really were goals though -- who doesn’t want a 6+ figure business, leave their day job, retire their spouse to work for them and whatever else, right? ...but later in the day it’s a guarantee I would be annoyed thinking HOW is this their life?! I have the business degrees, I have put in the work, when is it my turn...[insert tiny violin playing]

One day I was scrolling and caught myself just as I was about to roll my eyes, and asked Why? Why does this bother me so much?

What Story Are You Telling Yourself?

When you sit back and look at the motives behind why you do what you do -- the short answer is the same -- *cue Drake & Trey* "I just want to be successful"

Pretty much? We want to be successful. Whether it's as the smart and savvy business person, the transformational coach, the best selling author, or the most amazingly talented whatever. We believe, this identity, this goal, this feat is the ticket.

And it's not.

The problem is it takes more than wanting success to get it. It even takes more than "thinking" you know how you are going to get it (career field included). The hard work and daily grind is only half the battle. Your mindset is the other part. It's really that deep. @@No matter how hard you work, you can not out hustle a lack mindset.@@ You will eventually have to tackle and master what's in your head.